Let’s face it you are an adult now with many responsibilities but  21 is the perfect age to party. Balance is the mantra. If you are already 21, then you will relate to it because you have been there and seen it all. If you are near that perfect age, then here we will make it easy for you by guiding you with the 21 things we wish our 21 year old self knew.
Live life to the fullest
It is something which everyone tells you without giving enough options to do so. You can help yourself and enjoy whatever comes your way. Enjoy the momos in rain, shop a little before a crucial interview. Life will be sorted.
Guy best friend is better than a boy friend
Trust us having a guy friend is always better. They don’t hurt, cheat or leave you. They always stand by your side.
Marriage is not the goal
You don’t have to settle just because all your friends are getting married. Stay away from ‘kitni badi ho gai hai. Shadi k liye ladke dekho’ type of relatives.
‘Doosre kya sochenge’ is none of your business
This is not your time to think about others. Be truthful to yourself and chuck those ‘doosre’ around you.
Dressing up is all you need to know
The art of grooming is a must at 21. You should be well dressed and classy. A simple denim n white T- shirt can do wonder if carried properly.
Pamper your skin
Skin is often delicate at 21 and needs special care. You can trust fruit packs blindly to keep your skin look 10 years younger and fresh.
Shop smart
Low on budget ? Don’t worry you can still shop. A pair of denims for Rs 800, a scarf for Rs 50 from Sarojini and a plain black top is all you need. Fold your jeans and wear it like a capri or fold in inside and make it ankle length, wear your top with the scarf or without it. The art of shopping is a must by now.
You are no less if you are still jobless
It is time to earn but don’t settle with anything that comes your way. So what if your friends and juniors have a job? Wait for the one you are interested in.
Patience is the key to success
21 is when you face panic attacks. You are jobless, no boy friend, heart breaks, broke etc, but don’t lose hopes and keep calm. It is the learning phase.
You finally should know that you are not the adopted one
HAHA!!! Every younger sibling has gone through ‘tujhe koode se uthaya hai’, or ‘tu adopted hai’ phase. It’s high time you should know the reality that you are not.
Drinking doesn’t harm… just don’t tell your liver
You should experience getting high at least once at twenty one because it is really fun. Don’t try to rhyme after you are drunk.
Real friends are hard to find
People stay with you till the time they need you. Yes it is the sad truth which you must accept by now. But your school friends are the icing on the cake as they have seen you when you used to look like a complete crap and still love you.
Save money
Party, shops but keep a little aside from your account. You should know the importance of money. Save a little for your parents. It will make them happy.
Hygiene
You can never compromise with hygiene. By this time you should know how to take care of the private you. Wearing good clothes is not enough if you are not clean.
Crush changes everyday
Stop running after a guy you like if he ignores you. You are a princess and you don’t need to run in your fairy tale shoes rather settle for a guy who will love you for what you are.
Mistakes are lessons to be learned
Accept it and move on. Never stop yourself for one wrong thing you did. Falling can never stop you. Failure is the key to success. So make mistakes and learn.
Safety is the key word
You should know about it before doing it. Precaution is all you need. Avoid contraceptives, they harm your body and most important be emotionally attached and trust your partner for a happy and painless climax. Don’t drink and ride. You will regret it.
Make your own identity:
Say no to identity crisis. At this age your dreams clashes with reality. Wait for the right time and work hard.
Travel
Travel makes a person evolve and grow. It is your learning period. Travel as much as you can and add experience, friends and memories to a book called life.
The real life begins from now
Life is what you want it to be. It’s time to make some crucial decisions. Your care free life is somewhat over. But don’t sacrifice the fun yet work for your goals. Explore yourself. Party party and party is all you should do. Celebrate every moment. Even if you are not selected for a job, it calls for a party as God has some better plans for you.
Fitness
Get in shape. It’s time to step out into the new world. Staying fit will make you feel more confident. Personality matters when it comes to creating an identity.
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You girls out there, hear us out! Live Life Queen Size. Look young. Look classy- Shop smart, look fit – love your body and enjoy your mistakes.